The list of discussion questions on this page is part of a publication called Number One ESL Discussion Book & Reference Guide.
1. What role does family play in your life?
2. What qualities do you think make a strong family bond?
3. Can you describe a memorable family tradition? (Who is usually involved? Where does it take place? What do you do?)
4. How do you handle conflicts within your family? What advice would you give to someone who is struggling with conflicts in their family?
5. What are some common challenges families face in today’s society?
6. Do you believe it’s important to maintain close relationships with extended family members? Why or why not?
7. How have your relationships with close family members evolved over time? How about relationships with extended family members?
8. How do you think family relationships affect individual development?
9. How are the roles of the father, the mother, the oldest child, and even grandparents viewed in your culture?
10. What role do parents play in shaping the values and beliefs of their children?
11. Do you think it’s possible to have healthy family relationships without regular conversations? Why or why not? How often do you sit down and chat with your close family members?
12. How do you maintain a work-life balance while nurturing family relationships?
13. Share a story about a memorable family gathering: Where was this family gathering? Who was there? What did you do? Why was it memorable?
14. How do you express love and appreciation to your family members?
15. Have you ever experienced a cultural clash within your family? How was it resolved?
16. Have you ever had to navigate cultural differences in a romantic relationship or marriage? How did you handle it?
17. What are some cultural differences in the way families handle aging and elder care? Compare your culture to a neighboring country or a country on the other side of the world.
18. How do you think smartphones and social media have affected family relationships?
19. How do you define “family” in today’s society? Is it limited to blood relatives, or does it extend to close friends as well?
20. What significant life event have you experienced that strengthened your family bonds?
21. What role do siblings play in shaping each other’s personalities and behaviors? (Think of your own siblings as an example if you have any.)
22. How do you think economic factors influence family relationships?
23. What is the most important lesson you’ve learned from your family?
24. How do you support family members going through difficult times?
25. Do you believe in the concept of “family first” when making important life decisions? Why or why not?