The list of discussion questions on this page is part of a publication called Number One ESL Discussion Book & Reference Guide.
1. Which of the following adjectives would you choose to describe your own personality: arrogant, careful, confident, conservative, determined, easy-going, enthusiastic, friendly, funny, helpful, honest, intelligent, motivated, old-fashioned, open-minded, persistent, sensitive, serious, single-minded, strong-willed, stubborn, thoughtful, warm.
2. How do you think your personality has changed over time?
3. What role do you think genetics play in shaping our personalities? In what ways are you similar to your parents in personality?
4. What personality traits do you admire in others? Why do you admire them?
5. How do you handle criticism about your personality?
6. Can you share an experience where you stepped out of your comfort zone for personal growth? (What goal did you want to achieve? What did you do? Why was it uncomfortable?)
7. Can you identify any areas of personal growth that you are currently working on? How are you working on them?
8. How do you think childhood experiences shape our personalities as adults? Think of an example from your own life.
9. Have you ever had a mentor or role model who influenced your personal growth? How did they impact you?
10. Emotional Intelligence is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, but also to understand the emotions of people around you. On a scale from 0 to 10, how do you rate your Emotional Intelligence?
11. How do setbacks or failures contribute to personal growth?
12. Relationships with family and friends usually have a positive impact on personal growth. Explain how relationships with family and friends can also have a negative impact.
13. Do you think personality is more influenced by nature (genetics) or nurture (environmental factors)? Why?
14. How do you maintain a healthy work-life balance?
15. Do you believe in the idea of “fake it till you make it” when it comes to personal growth and confidence? Have you ever “faked it” in the hope that you would someday “make it”?
16. How do you handle disagreements or conflicts with other people? Share a recent case as an example.
17. What advice would you give to someone who wants to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth?
18. Can you recall a pivotal moment in your life that led to significant personal growth?