Going Out

The list of discussion questions on this page is part of a publication called Number One ESL Discussion Book & Reference Guide.

1. What are some of your favorite ways to socialize and spend time outside of your home?

2. Is it expensive to go out in your city? How much money do you usually spend on a night out? How much is a meal at a good restaurant in your city? How about a glass of beer? How much for a good cup of coffee at a coffee shop? Would you go out more often if it was cheaper?

3. Does your city have many night clubs? If you are under 25, where do you go to dance? If you are over 35 and you want to go dancing, where do you go?

4. Describe a memorable night out with friends or family: Where did you go? Who went out with you? Why was it memorable?

5. How do you decide where to go when planning a night out? What are some factors that influence your choice of venue?

6. How do you handle disagreements or different preferences when planning a night out with friends or family?

7. Do you prefer quiet evenings at home or going out to socialize? Why?

8. Share a story about a unique dining experience you’ve had: Where did you go? Who was with you? What did you eat? Why do you consider it unique?

9. How have websites and smartphone apps changed the way people socialize and plan outings?

10. Describe your ideal night out: What activities would it include? Who would you want with you? Where would you go?

11. Can you share a memorable experience from a night out at a concert, club, or bar? (Where did you go? Who was with you? What did you do? Why was it memorable?)

12. How important is ambience and atmosphere when choosing a restaurant or venue?

13. Can you recall a time when you tried a new cuisine or restaurant? What was your experience like?

14. Share a story about a cultural or traditional event you attended: Where was this event? What was it about? Who was with you? What did you do?

15. How do social habits differ between different generations? How often do you go out with people who are at least ten years older or ten years younger than you?

16. How spontaneous are you in planning outings and social gatherings?

17. Think of four young men or women: One living on an island in the Pacific; one living in a suburb of Sydney, Australia; one living in a small apartment in Hong Kong; and one living in a rural town of the United States. What differences do you think there are in their nightlife preferences and socializing habits?

18. Can you share a story about a memorable encounter or conversation you had while out socializing? (Where did this encounter or conversation take place? Who else was involved? What did you talk about? Why was it memorable?)

19. How do you handle peer pressure when it comes to going out?

20. What would you do for a romantic night out? If money was no problem, what would you do? If you had no money, and you still wanted a romantic night out, what would you then do?

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